The Emotional Heart

Healing a Broken Heart

Happiness Specialist, Rebecca L. Norrington said, “A broken heart is probably one of the most painful experiences this life has to offer…I know if I had a dollar for every heartbreak and disappointment I’ve felt, I’d be able to finance a cruise around the world…well, maybe a cruise halfway around the world.”

How many of us could say the same thing. Heartache is real, painful and can greatly affect your health! Learn more.

​It is important for all of us to understand the human psychic heart is also an organ of sorts. Repeated heartache affects a person psychologically and physiologically. My path to working with folks in need of healing arose from a conversation with my Mother-in-law, June Diane.

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Diane had been diagnosed with lung cancer. She was frightened and overwhelmed. In a poignant conversation, at age 22, I shared with her my growing belief that emotions could have a powerful effect on our immunity making us vulnerable to disease. I went onto to share that I truly believed emotional healing was a necessary component of healing. She looked at me with tears in hers eyes and asked me, "How do you get that kind of healing?"  I was on the right track, but I had no answers for her then. She did pass, but on her transition she had some powerfully healing "miracles" which gave her hope of peace.

This interaction with her is etched into my memory. It was the palpable feeling of her held back tears, stuck in her throat with a big burning lump, which is incidentally the place where her cancer started. Initially diagnosed as a fungal infection within months it became cancer.

I knew then it was no coincidence and that certain events of her life had lead to one heartache after another until her body could no longer contain the pain. I prayed to know the answer to that question. My quest has lead me on a convoluted path strewn with my own heartaches. But, in spite of it all I have come to understand that gratefulness is the key to opening the doorway to healing. Love and compassion are it's pathway!

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If we can begin to understand our intentions arise from the heart space. They are a within us from birth and are a reflection of our Divine purpose for living here and now in this time.

It is essential to understand that we are not separate from each other. We know this is true because we can be affected negatively or positively by other people. 

Many of us suffer from wounds of the past and chronic cultural conditioning. We may not experience a sense of being  understood and accepted for who we are because of our difficult life experiences. 

Healing physically, emotionally, spiritually is a natural function of the body.
You can learn to heal

Freedom from broken heartedness, begins when we are able to accept and love ourselves. This starts by recognizing we feel the way we do for a good reason.  Through self acceptance we begin to move into the present moment which opens our heart to receive the LOVE we may have not have known due to our life's experiences and circumstances.

Acknowledging what we feel or have felt allows us to begin to digest past negative experiences and false programming.  We begin to trust and are able to receive love from the highest source, the Divine who lives in you as you! This is the natural way that trauma heals, read the BTH Blog Article Trauma Healing. Learn more about how traumas heal naturally by visiting my YouTube Channel

As we move into the new terrain, we begin to have a felt sense of love as the most powerful healing force. We grow into maturing emotionally and are able to forgive those who have purposefully or unconsciously wounded us. Forgiveness is liberating for us and for the other that we are one with. We need not seek to have a renewed relationship with those who are toxic to us, but we can be free from the resentments and judgements that keep us bound to their actions. 

Find support for healing, purchase a Learn and Heal Consult today with Vanessa Goldeen CWC and Wellness Educator.